Wise men never stop learning. They are always curious about the latest trend, the newest technology, the Next Big Thing! Even in bed. After all, a thousand tips and tactics have been developed since you and your girlfriend first did the nasty in the back seat of your first car.
The problem is, unlike in high school, you and your buddies probably are no longer comparing notes and sharing insider secrets. Which is too bad, because there is a lot more for you to learn. So take a good hard look at the suggestions in this blog. Take it all in. Apply it and you just may find that the next big thing coming along is YOU!
Monday, April 25, 2011
Conquering Mountains, Exploring Valleys, Preserving Wetlands
101: Find the secret of her twin peaks. Austrian researchers have found that an oft-neglected region of the breast, the northern part from roughly 10 o'clock to 2 o'clock, provides even more arousal than her nipples. Investigate with light kissing and a gentle massage using the heal of your hand, not the fingers. The palm gives even sensation without causing pain.
202: Point your compass toward her true north. Even if you find yourself upside down and disoriented during sex (happens to us all the time), you can always stay on course by trying to point the tip of your penis toward the inside of her belly button. The way her vagina is positioned, if you do that you will be close to her G-spot - the bundle of nerves that serves as a catalyst for orgasms.
202: Point your compass toward her true north. Even if you find yourself upside down and disoriented during sex (happens to us all the time), you can always stay on course by trying to point the tip of your penis toward the inside of her belly button. The way her vagina is positioned, if you do that you will be close to her G-spot - the bundle of nerves that serves as a catalyst for orgasms.
For Those Who Want To Work Up A Good Sweat
101: Exercise your right to more sex. We didn't like gym class any more than you did. The good news: Your ""spontaneous" erections in the shower will get a better response now than they did then. But before you lather up, work out. A University of California study shows that men who exercise 3 days a week have three times more sex - and better sex - than those who don't.
201: To extend your manhood, drop the Chalupa. You know extra weight is bad for your heart, but it also shortens your penis - you lose a half inch for every 15 pounds you gain. Here's why: The fat pad that protects your pubic area creeps over the shaft's base as you get fatter, obscuring perfectly good penis. A better diet and more exercise means more where it counts, too.
201: To extend your manhood, drop the Chalupa. You know extra weight is bad for your heart, but it also shortens your penis - you lose a half inch for every 15 pounds you gain. Here's why: The fat pad that protects your pubic area creeps over the shaft's base as you get fatter, obscuring perfectly good penis. A better diet and more exercise means more where it counts, too.
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Explore Her Deeply Hidden Desires. Couch Optional
101: Master her mind games. In one survey, women admitted fantasizing about sex up to twice as often as men do. So how come she's not constantly jumping your bones? Because unlike your fantasies, hers are lengthy, interactive scenarios. You can get more action simply by giving her a scenario to spin. Toss her a line like this at lunch: "If anybody would look amazing in a French maid's outfit, it's you," and you up your chances of her breaking out the feather duster after dinner.
201: Hypnotize her with your eyes. Want to drive her wild with desire? Look her straight in the eye during sex. Add in a little play-by-play of the action and solicit her opinion, too. The combination of eye contact and dialogue - that direct connection during sex - is an incredible turn-on for women.
201: Hypnotize her with your eyes. Want to drive her wild with desire? Look her straight in the eye during sex. Add in a little play-by-play of the action and solicit her opinion, too. The combination of eye contact and dialogue - that direct connection during sex - is an incredible turn-on for women.
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Better Living Through Sexual Chemistry And Quantum Physicals
101: Tantalize her with chemistry. You love it when she gives you oral sex with a breath mint in her mouth. Here is why: The mucous membranes that line your penis let mint pass through, giving you a cool thrill. But did you know that popping a curiously strong mint while you are giving her oral sex can lead to a curiously strong orgasm? Note to the wise: Peppermint oil can sting her. Stick to the original wintergreen flavor.
201: Defy gravity with your genitals. Just before ejaculations, your testicles ascend like an aircraft's landing gear to provide more power to your takeoff. To give your equipment an even bigger boost, have your partner gently press upward on your testicles with the palm of her hand just before you ejaculate. This will heighten your arousal and add intensity to your orgasm.
301: Make her adore a vacuum. Next time you are, you know, yodeling in the gully, don't just lick, the way most guys do. Sucking on her clitoris and labia creates a unique feeling, and when contrasted with the usual friction can lead to more and better orgasms. This technique is better for you, too - you'll get fewer tongue cramps.
201: Defy gravity with your genitals. Just before ejaculations, your testicles ascend like an aircraft's landing gear to provide more power to your takeoff. To give your equipment an even bigger boost, have your partner gently press upward on your testicles with the palm of her hand just before you ejaculate. This will heighten your arousal and add intensity to your orgasm.
301: Make her adore a vacuum. Next time you are, you know, yodeling in the gully, don't just lick, the way most guys do. Sucking on her clitoris and labia creates a unique feeling, and when contrasted with the usual friction can lead to more and better orgasms. This technique is better for you, too - you'll get fewer tongue cramps.
Calculating Moves For Impressive Figures
101: Count on yourself to last longer. To increase your control - and keep your climax at bay - use a technique called "peaking." As you are thrusting, rate your arousal on a scale of 1 to 10. When it builds to 3 or 4, slow down and take deep breaths until it diminishes. Then let your arousal build to 5 or 6, and back off again. Do this until you can reach 8 or 9 before climaxing.
201: Multiply your satisfaction. The usual Saturday-night equation is You + Her = 1 (orgasm). For better sex, try multiplying your orgasms. You can train yourself to be multi orgasmic, but it involves practicing through masturbation. Build yourself up to the brink of orgasm, then throttle back. do this three times before climaxing. A little practice and you will be able to feel the orgasm - racing pulse, waves of euphoria, and relaxation - without ejaculating. Not only does it reduce the messy cleanup, but you will remain erect and ready for more action. Good luck.
201: Multiply your satisfaction. The usual Saturday-night equation is You + Her = 1 (orgasm). For better sex, try multiplying your orgasms. You can train yourself to be multi orgasmic, but it involves practicing through masturbation. Build yourself up to the brink of orgasm, then throttle back. do this three times before climaxing. A little practice and you will be able to feel the orgasm - racing pulse, waves of euphoria, and relaxation - without ejaculating. Not only does it reduce the messy cleanup, but you will remain erect and ready for more action. Good luck.
Build Stronger Erections!
Men might think they only need one thing in order to have an erection: a penis. In fact, one Italian study shows that the strength of the muscles surrounding your penis may also play a part. When researchers studied the strength of two pelvic-area muscles in 390 men, they found that potent guys were 17 percent stronger than the guys who had trouble with the penis. The stronger these muscles are, the more pressure thy will create in the erection. By simply squeezing and releasing the muscles you use to stop urination, you can train these muscles to get stronger. So do it often, and for best results, as her to give you a hand.
Rock Star Sex Positions
She will forget you are just a banker when you rock her world with these moves - guaranteed to stimulate her in all the right places. Some may seem familiar at first glance, but pay close attention to the details. These are variations we bet you have never seen before.
Flat Rear Entry
How to do it: She lies facedown on the bed with her pelvis slightly raised. She can use a pillow for support. You enter her vagina from behind.
Difficult (On a scale of 1 to 10): 4
Payoff: 8
You have heard about the G-spot. This is one of the best ways to go after it. The downward angle of entry will target the elusive but highly sensitive dime - size spot inside the front wall of her vagina. And because the padding on her butt is blocking at least part of your access, you will have shallow penetration, so you won't pass the G-spot by. Tell your partner not to be discouraged if this doesn't feel great at first. The friction on the G-spot may cause discomfort before it turns to pleasure. This is also a tight position, which creates extra pressure on the clitoris, and it is one of the few rear entry positions that puts your heads together, allowing snuggling and kissing.
What's in it for you: If she keeps her legs together, she will have a tight grip on your penis, which should more than make up for the lack of depth.
Flat Rear Entry
How to do it: She lies facedown on the bed with her pelvis slightly raised. She can use a pillow for support. You enter her vagina from behind.
Difficult (On a scale of 1 to 10): 4
Payoff: 8
You have heard about the G-spot. This is one of the best ways to go after it. The downward angle of entry will target the elusive but highly sensitive dime - size spot inside the front wall of her vagina. And because the padding on her butt is blocking at least part of your access, you will have shallow penetration, so you won't pass the G-spot by. Tell your partner not to be discouraged if this doesn't feel great at first. The friction on the G-spot may cause discomfort before it turns to pleasure. This is also a tight position, which creates extra pressure on the clitoris, and it is one of the few rear entry positions that puts your heads together, allowing snuggling and kissing.
What's in it for you: If she keeps her legs together, she will have a tight grip on your penis, which should more than make up for the lack of depth.
The "X" Position
How to do it. You sit on the bed with your legs in front of you; She straddles your torso.
Difficulty: 3
Payoff: 7
This position allows more gentle rocking than in-and-out thrusting - a change she will love. Some guys are not going to want to hear this, but a lot of women find powerful thrusting distracting and simply prefer to be "filled up" while they concentrate on stimulating the clitoris.
To make this position really rock, hold hands with each other and lean back so you are connected only at the hands and genitals. Concentrate on wriggling the base of your penis against the upper part of her vaginal opening, grinding against the clitoris.
What' in it for you: Since there is little steady motion to wear you out and only moderate stimulation to the head of your penis, you should be able to last longer than usual. Once she has had her fun, switch to a position that hits you in the right spots.
Difficulty: 3
Payoff: 7
This position allows more gentle rocking than in-and-out thrusting - a change she will love. Some guys are not going to want to hear this, but a lot of women find powerful thrusting distracting and simply prefer to be "filled up" while they concentrate on stimulating the clitoris.
To make this position really rock, hold hands with each other and lean back so you are connected only at the hands and genitals. Concentrate on wriggling the base of your penis against the upper part of her vaginal opening, grinding against the clitoris.
What' in it for you: Since there is little steady motion to wear you out and only moderate stimulation to the head of your penis, you should be able to last longer than usual. Once she has had her fun, switch to a position that hits you in the right spots.
The Hot Seat
How to do it: You sit on the bed with your back against the headboard. She slides on top of your erection, with her feet by your ears and her hands on either of your legs or the bed behind her.
Difficulty: 5
Payoff: 6
Since you're supporting her entire weight on your lap, it'll be up to her to provide the motion by using her arms to push up off of you. That can be a little tricky, but once she's used to it, the result is deep penetration that not only feels great but looks great. "Both of us had a terrific view of the action, " one tester reported. It also leaves your hands free to help out with additional clitoral stimulation, should she want it. Try using the palm of your hand to rub in circular motions along her mons pubis, the soft, hair covered mound just above her vagina. That will create indirect stimulation along her clitoris.
What's in it for you: She'll be doing all the real work, so you can lie back and enjoy.
Difficulty: 5
Payoff: 6
Since you're supporting her entire weight on your lap, it'll be up to her to provide the motion by using her arms to push up off of you. That can be a little tricky, but once she's used to it, the result is deep penetration that not only feels great but looks great. "Both of us had a terrific view of the action, " one tester reported. It also leaves your hands free to help out with additional clitoral stimulation, should she want it. Try using the palm of your hand to rub in circular motions along her mons pubis, the soft, hair covered mound just above her vagina. That will create indirect stimulation along her clitoris.
What's in it for you: She'll be doing all the real work, so you can lie back and enjoy.
The Cowgirl
How to do it: You lean back with your shoulders against the foot of the bed and your feet on the floor, supporting the bulk of your weight. She straddles your midsection and uses her legs to thrust.
Difficulty: 6
Payoff: 10
Even if she's never been the jockey type, she'll have a hard time resisting this invitation to ride. Not only does she control the angle, speed, depth, and rhythm of the thrusts, but because she supports her own weight, she also has complete freedom of movement. This is as close as you can get to having sex in a swing set without having to install hardware in your bedroom. Your mate doesn't have to rely on your figuring out where she likes to be touched - she can stimulate whatever needs it on her own. One caution: Some women tend to get weak in the knees during orgasm, so brace yourself for a little extra weight once she peaks.
Whats in it for you: You can't beat the view.
Difficulty: 6
Payoff: 10
Even if she's never been the jockey type, she'll have a hard time resisting this invitation to ride. Not only does she control the angle, speed, depth, and rhythm of the thrusts, but because she supports her own weight, she also has complete freedom of movement. This is as close as you can get to having sex in a swing set without having to install hardware in your bedroom. Your mate doesn't have to rely on your figuring out where she likes to be touched - she can stimulate whatever needs it on her own. One caution: Some women tend to get weak in the knees during orgasm, so brace yourself for a little extra weight once she peaks.
Whats in it for you: You can't beat the view.
SEX TRICKS FROM SKIN FLICKS
We're not huge fans of adult movies, unless of course you can learn something from them. Then we're all for them! Thats why we sent a sex writer home with 40 X-rated videos. When he emerged 3 days later broken and empty, he was still conscious enough to bring us these lessons for the bedroom.
Don't finish where you started. Three minutes is about as long as you will see any two (or more) actors in the same sexual position; they will reconfigure several times during a scene to keep things interesting. You should, too. It can keep you from ejaculating too soon.
Thrust one at a time. Penetrate slowly, then withdraw completely; Wait a second and start over, 10 times. "Insertion is everyone's favorite part of intercourse. Well, second favorite anyway. Repeating the initial insertion will help you savor the feeling. Be careful; you could like it so much that you finish before you are ready.
Bounce. If she is on top, have her sit still so you can do the bouncing - and control the speed of the friction. Bend your knees and use your thigh muscles. When you move up and down, you will slide in and out. Stay in control so she doesn't slide all the way off.
Touch and tease. For a different sensation, use two fingers to stroke up and down to stimulate both sides of her clitoris without actually touching it.
Use her legs. Have her lie on her back with one leg straight; the other leg should be pulled in toward her chest. Straddle her straight leg and support yourself with an arm hooked into the crook of her bent knee. "This allows good access, but because her legs are still together, she will get lots of clitoral stimulation. That's a good thing.
Don't finish where you started. Three minutes is about as long as you will see any two (or more) actors in the same sexual position; they will reconfigure several times during a scene to keep things interesting. You should, too. It can keep you from ejaculating too soon.
Thrust one at a time. Penetrate slowly, then withdraw completely; Wait a second and start over, 10 times. "Insertion is everyone's favorite part of intercourse. Well, second favorite anyway. Repeating the initial insertion will help you savor the feeling. Be careful; you could like it so much that you finish before you are ready.
Bounce. If she is on top, have her sit still so you can do the bouncing - and control the speed of the friction. Bend your knees and use your thigh muscles. When you move up and down, you will slide in and out. Stay in control so she doesn't slide all the way off.
Touch and tease. For a different sensation, use two fingers to stroke up and down to stimulate both sides of her clitoris without actually touching it.
Use her legs. Have her lie on her back with one leg straight; the other leg should be pulled in toward her chest. Straddle her straight leg and support yourself with an arm hooked into the crook of her bent knee. "This allows good access, but because her legs are still together, she will get lots of clitoral stimulation. That's a good thing.
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